Jordan Kozey, MA
Registered Psychologist (Provisional)
Healing Through Relationship
I’m Jordan Kozey, and I am a passionate therapist and writer from Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada.
Born in and amongst the simplicity and open skies of the prairies and trained in core of San Francisco’s elite psychological community, as well as other areas of the world, I am keen on providing a diverse perspective, open mind, and experienced heart to the therapy I provide and the exploration that takes place in my office.
My mission is to compassionately discover ways of cultivating greater health and meaning in the lives of individuals, couples, and families.
SERVICES
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Individual Therapy
My work has seen success in working with individuals experiencing
Depression/Anxiety
Healing Trauma
(Sexual, Mental, Emotional, Injury)
Grief & Loss
Creative Walls/Feeling Stuck
Mood/Personality Disorders
Anger
Recovering from Brain Injuries (ABI’s)
Sexual dysfunction/stagnation
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Immigration Stress
Fetishes
Codependency
(Caretaking of others)
ADHD
Lucid Dreaming
Intense Dreaming
Hard to Explain Spiritual Abilities
Lack of Assertiveness
Troubling, Invasive Thoughts
The complexities of polyamory, swinging, or “lifestyle” issues
Unhealthy Attachment to Parent or Parental Figure
Considering Separation from Spouse
Difficulty with Sexual Preference Issues or Coming Out
Lack of Confidence
Lacking a Sense of Self
Couples Therapy
I am trained and efficient in assisting individuals and couples in the following areas
Reclaiming Sexual Intimacy & Attractiveness in the Relationship
Surviving/Leaving a Narcissistic Partner
Regaining Life through & After Divorce
Finding Passion & Intimacy After Children
Sexual Polarity
What is it and why is it important?
Relationship Turbulence/Codependency
Alienation from Children, Affairs
Breaking Up But Want to Remain Friends or Co-Parent
Understanding Gender Dynamics & The Subtle Languages of Love
Non-violent communication
Domestic Violence Support/Repair
Issues in the “Lifestyle” or Polyamory
Reclaiming Trust
Assertiveness
Blended Family Complications
Increasing Attractiveness
Financial Disagreements/Organization
My Approach
My approach weaves a creative web through interpersonal, narrative, transpersonal (spiritual), somatic (body-oriented), cognitive and psychoanalytic modalities. My work is sex positive, relational and adventurous in nature.
I also work with dreams, believe that energy needs to move through the body, and that gender plays an important role in well-being. Mostly, I am interested in how we wake up to better lives through relating to one another.
What I Offer
I do NOT diagnose. I believe in alternative measures to exploring mental health than labelling our difficult moment. This does not mean I believe a diagnosis is always a detriment, just that in many cases I see, including my own, a good relationship and an adjustment to behaviours and surroundings is all one needs.
I believe: We are good enough to do exactly what we need to do; we have what we need to heal, within and without; life is a continual stepping into this awareness; and that all of us require help along the way.
My Background:
I completed my undergraduate degree in Psychology from the University of Regina, then attended the California Institute of Integral Studies where I completed an MA in Integral Counseling Psychology. I’ve learned that health is not found in textbooks (although there are some damn good books out there), but in relationship & connection, a devotion to self-exploration, behaviours that provide positive returns, and developing ways to connect to the mysteries of life. I also believe we need help and guidance along the way.
Having scaled the vicissitudes of raising children, marriage, divorce, and the deep entanglements of naricissistic/codependent relationships, owning my own business, and having undergone extensive travel, I have a passion for healthy relationships and how to grow toward and within them.
I work with both women and men, and run Prometheus Men’s Group, a place where male energy seeks a healthier, more conscious way. I also write for online journals in the areas of health, wellness, psychology, sexuality, and spirituality.
Why I’m A Therapist:
People ask me why I chose to be a therapist. It’s a good question. It is not solely because I like to help people, although that is certainly part of it. I believe I derive a sense of fufillment when I sit with people and hear the real stories that get missed in everyday, surface level conversation. Each hour is a way for me to witness the emerging of a new hero or heroine in his/her own life. In the same light, I am able to make more sense out of all the experiences I have mountained and valleyed along the way.
PUBLISHED WORKS
Orgasm Frequency
Can a Man Ejaculate too much? Disclaimer: This article endeavors to review the shadow side of male orgasm and how retention of ejaculation is beneficial. I am not against self-pleasure. Please read my other piece on how important I think pleasure is in the male...
9 Sneaky Lies Your Mind Tells You When Under the Thumb of Abuse (and the Underlying Truths)
Part of breaking free from abusive cycles is identifying the voices in your mind that keep you tethered to the stink pole. Here are 9 thoughts that may slip under your radar, or evade the awareness of someone you love. “They have been through so much in their life....
Powerful Signs It Is Time to Let a Man Go
One of the things i do as a therapist is work with single women who are interested in finding lasting love and partnership—for many the holy grail of the dating quest. Of course, dating can be fun and rewarding, but my clients often describe it as an arduous...